父母需要让孩子尊重和理解自己，孩子同样也希望父母尊重自己和理解自己，重庆一对一辅导的老师经过多年的教学经验总结出，孩子最希望自己的父母做的五件事就是：
1.成绩考不好时不骂我，而是在我身边帮我找出错的原因;
2.不随便在别人面前说我不好、不乖;
3.不要求我像谁一样学习，我有我的特点，不需要模仿别人;
4.尊重我的看法，听完我的意见再说话;
5.在我面前不吵架、 不撒谎。
你曾经是不是也这么希望过?
再来看看西方国家的孩子最希望父母做的十件事：
1.Come into my bedroom at night, tuck me in and sing me a song. Also tell me stories about when you were little.
2.Give me hugs and kisses and sit and talk with me privately.
3.Spend quality time just with me, not with my brothers and sisters around.
4.Give me nutritious food so I can grow up healthy.
5.At dinner talk about what we could do together on the weekend.
6.At night talk to me about about anything; love, school, family etc.
7.Let me play outside a lot.
8.Cuddle under a blanket and watch our favorite TV show together.
9.Discipline me. It makes me feel like you care.
10.Leave special messages in my desk or lunch bag.
请广大父母看到此篇内容后，改变家长的一贯作风，认真对待自己的孩子，要真心和孩子互动，互相沟通和交流。从而促进父母与孩子之间建立起良好的亲子关系，促进亲子之间的感情交流。
